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Jared Seide

Beyond Us & Them Executive Director

Council Trainer | Author | Speaker

Jared Seide is the Executive Director of Beyond Us & Them. He is an author, speaker and recipient of the 2023 Marcia Slater Johnston Award for Outstanding Leadership in Community-Based Efforts to Reduce Social Isolation and Loneliness conferred by the Foundation for Social Connection for "exemplifying exceptional leadership and dedication in reducing social isolation and loneliness and promoting connection in his community."

 

Jared has worked extensively with schools, businesses, healthcare organizations, elder care facilities, prisons, community based organizations and law enforcement agencies to build resources and to help these groups thrive and grow. He has developed and shepherded training programs to promote health, relationality and compassion and reduce burn-out amongst police and correctional officers, physicians, nurses and other first responders. He has created award-winning insight and accountability-oriented rehabilitation programs for incarcerated populations and a reentry program to support and resource formerly incarcerated individuals, as well as programs that build positive organizational culture within public and private companies.

 

Jared’s educational background includes a BA with high honors from Brown University. He is the founder of Center for Council, the organization that gave rise to Beyond Us & Them. Previously, Jared led careers in the entertainment industry and the corporate world. He is a member of the Zen Center of Los Angeles, a graduate of the Upaya Institute Chaplaincy Program and has been a Spirit Holder for Zen Peacemaker Bearing Witness Retreats around the world.

 

 

Jared has led workshops, trainings and retreats focusing on compassion, reconciliation and community-building throughout the U.S., as well as in Poland, Rwanda, France, Ireland, Colombia and Bosnia-Herzegovina and has been a Resident Fellow and Convening Host at the Rockefeller Foundation's Bellagio Center. He is a member of the US Department of Justice National Officer Safety and Wellness Workgroup and the POST/UCSD 720 Health Council of Advisors.

 

Jared has designed, piloted and coordinated compassion-based programs in prisons, assisted living facilities, youth groups and a variety of non-profit, faith-based organizations, social service and law enforcement agencies, including:

  • The Co-Mentoring Project for emancipated foster youth
  • The Organizational Wellness Project for the staff of scores of community-based organizations and other agencies
  • Council for Insight, Compassion & Resilience, a rehabilitative program active in over two dozen prisons throughout California and winner of the American Correctional Association’s Innovations in Corrections award
  • The Trainer Leadership Initiative, supporting emerging council leaders serving impacted communities
  • Peace Officer Wellness, Empathy & Resilience (POWER) Training Program for law enforcement and correctional officers
  • Compassion, Attunement & Resilience Education (CARE) for Healthcare Professionals, which focuses on burnout and dysregulation amongst physicians, nurses and other first responders and utilizes innovations in mindfulness science and compassionate communication techniques like council to support a culture of professional wellness in healthcare

books

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Where Compassion Begins: Foundational Practices to Enhance Mindfulness, Attention and Listening from the Heart

Where Compassion Begins... is an invitation to build the muscle of compassion, through exercises and practices that enhance our capacity to listen from the heart and, in so doing, take care of ourselves and those around us.

This book is intended to provide a resource for anyone who has had an opportunity to sit in a council circle, or whose curiosity has been ignited by what the practice of council may have to offer. It offers explanations, definitions and distinctions that are part of the Introduction to Council Workshop and that have been culled from many years of council practice in many settings. It also includes material created to encourage and support extending the teachings of council into one's life, outside of the council circle. The core intentions of listening and speaking from the heart can unfold in every facet of one's life, well beyond the experience of the council circle. This book provides a roadmap for the journey of discovery along this rich path.

Available to purchase in English & Spanish and audiobook, and available in a special edition for incarcerated persons.

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Leaving Prison Behind: A Council Before I Go

​Leaving Prison Behind: A Council Before I Go is an illustrated novella created from the words and stories of system-impacted individuals, and those who support them.

The book grew out of Beyond Us & Them's prison and reentry programs, with the intention of supporting and resourcing incarcerated individuals preparing themselves for the journey home. The book tells the story of the last night of one man's incarceration, as he creates an imaginal council in his cell to call in the important voices from his life, those stories he knows he needs to hear. Some will recognize the practice of council that the characters enact in this story -- and others will encounter it for the first time

​Compiled and edited by Jared Seide, Leaving Prison Behind includes a robust resource section with ideas, references and practices intended to be of support to those preparing for and embarking on the challenging journey that lies ahead.

Buy or gift a copy of Leaving Prison Behind to an incarcerated individual or donate to the Leaving Prison Behind campaign

recognition & honors

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  • Marcia Slater Johnston Award for Outstanding Leadership in Community-Based Efforts to Reduce Social Isolation and Loneliness, Foundation for Social Connection - 2023
  • Seal of ExcellenceInternational Association of Directors of Law Enforcement Standards and Training - 2022
  • Innovations in Corrections Award, American Correctional Association - 2020
  • Rockefeller Foundation Residential Fellow, Bellagio Center, Bellagio, Italy - 2015
  • Rockefeller Foundation Bellagio Convening Host, Bellagio Center, Bellagio, Italy - 2014
  • The Listening Award, Our Little Blue Box - 2014

workshops & talks

articles

New Study Confirms Beyond Us & Them’s POWER Training Improves Officer Health, Mindfulness, and Social Connection

Beyond Us & Them Executive Director Jared Seide gathering biometric data in the form of HRV on Peace Officer Wellness, Empathy & Resilience (POWER) training program participants.

Jacksonville, Florida: leading the way in police health and wellness

Law enforcement personnel with the Jacksonville Sheriff's Office participate in Beyond Us & Them's Peace Officer Wellness, Empathy & Resilience (POWER) training program geared towards officer wellness and first responder wellbeing

Jared Seide makes an appearance at Global Loneliness Awareness Summit in Washington, D.C.

Beyond Us & Them Executive Director, Jared Seide, speaks at the Global Loneliness Awareness Summit, hosted by the Coalition to End Social Isolation and Loneliness. Beyond Us & Them creates programs to combat the loneliness epidemic by fostering wellbeing, compassion and social connection

Voyage LA: community highlights article

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From What if, to What Next – Compassion

law enforcement with the Los Angeles Police Department listen on as they participate in Beyond Us & Them's Peace Officer Wellness, Empathy & Resilience (POWER) training program for officer wellness.

Code Pink: Interview with Jared Seide

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POWER Training: on the Cutting-Edge of Scientific Research on the Physiological Benefits of Council

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Five Things You Can Do To Become More Resilient During Turbulent Times- Medium Article

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podcasts & videos

How Talking in a Circle is Changing Prisons and Police Departments

Participants of Beyond Us & Them's Council for Insight, Compassion & Resilience (CICR) training program which currently operates in 29 of California's 33 state prisons.

From What if, to What Next – Compassion

law enforcement with the Los Angeles Police Department listen on as they participate in Beyond Us & Them's Peace Officer Wellness, Empathy & Resilience (POWER) training program for officer wellness.

Social Connections And Discourse In The Nonprofit Sector

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Project good podcast

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Way of Council on the Inside with Jared Seide

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Reweaving the social fabric through the practice of Council with Jared Seide

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Healing Each Other Through Presence and Compassion 

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Leaving Prison Behind workshop: A Council Before I Go with Zen Peacemakers

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Beyond Us and Them: Today is the day

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Sitting in Council with Jared Seide

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The Hero Maker with Jared Seide

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How to Flip from Floundering to Flourishing – 3-part series

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How to create a high-performance culture through council – Parts 1,2 & 3

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Leading with empathy and allyship

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Jared Seide & Rich Goerling on The Beat

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In the quest for better conversations with Jared Seide

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Restorative Justice on the Rise

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Jared Seide on Shifting Gears

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A congruent life

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get in touch

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